I Don't Love My Family

I am always amazed at how my little ones are growing up and discovering new things every day. Last night was rough for poor Marin and after being disciplined she said through tears, "I don't love you mommy." Gulp. It wasn't like she was being mean, she just really had hurt feelings and was upset with me and all she knew to say was, "I don't love you mommy." She said it over and over through tears and even said that she didn't love her family anymore. I know her well enough to know not to take it personally, but it was still sad because she was really hurt and was trying to express her feelings. I can't put my finger on it, but there was just something about it that showed she was getting older and figuring things out.

After going to her room to think it all over she came back (15 minutes later) and said, still in tears, "I really do love you mommy and I do love my family" and then she gave me a huge hug. I just told her that I always love her, even when she gets in trouble, and she and I had a wonderful bonding time. It was truly one of the sweetest times I've ever had with her and I'm thankful to God for it. My little girl, in all her 3-year-old emotions, is growing up, figuring out life and melting my heart.